Something that’s always puzzled me about the nature of adult friendships is how fragile they can be.
One month, you’re texting regularly, having great heart-to-hearts and even getting together for coffee or a movie. The next month, it seems like the person has become totally indifferent to your existence. Or worse: Resentful of it.
Or maybe they just ghosted in your life and you don’t know what way they feel about you.
Does anyone else feel emotional whiplash whenever that happens?
I feel like it’s happened a number of times in my life – most recently, this week.
And each time it does happen, I’ve tried to analyze what exactly happened and if there was anything I could have done to prevent it. Continue reading